1. To start
You should never just go from making out to eating a girl out. You have to do some things that lead up to it. The longer you make her wait, the more exicted and aroused she’ll get and the anticipation will be torture.
2. Your hands (before going down on her)
You should always be doing something for her. It’s crucial you don’t just go around kissing her with out touching her. Everyone likes to be stimulated, and your touch will feel amazing given the situation. Run your fingers through her hair, touch her sides and give them a gentle squeeze, put your hands down her pants just beyond her belt line and slide then across then back up. In some cases, wherever one hand is, the other one should be in the complete opposite place, for instance if your left hand is on her lower stomach you could have your other hand running through hair or holding the back of her neck/head. But your hands also work very closely with your lips.
3. Your lips (before going down on her)
While your hands are doing their thing you also have to place your lips correctly. It all depends on where your hands are, though. If your hands are down her pants kissing her neck would be a good idea. If you have your hands running throug her hair or holding her face, you should be kissing her lips. This is just generally how I do things, so if you don’t do it this way don’t worry too much.
4. And down we go..
This is when everything starts to come into play. You want to have some of your body going down but some of it staying up to tease her. Try leaving your hands up by her breasts and feeling her up while kissing down her chest and stomach. You’ll obviously have to take her pants off which will require you to part ways from her lips and body momentarily. But once you’ve removed her pants, go back to her by kissing her knees and then up her leg towards her hips; gentle, passionate kisses are the most arousing in this case. Kiss up her inner thigh until you get to her groin, kiss all around that too. You can even kiss her vagina if you want.
5. Your hands while being down there
Once you’re in place you’re going to want to hold onto her legs, try wrapping your arms under them and holding the top of her thighs. You can also hold her hips, breasts or hands. Periodicly run your hands all along her sides, hips, chest and stomach. BE AWARE, as far as her hands go… she may tug or pull your hair due to the great amount of pleasure she is in, don’t worry suck it up because this is about her right now.
6. All systems go
Your first lick of glory may taste a little strange, don’t worry about that. It’s just because she’s wet. Now you have to do some exploration. Generally girls are sensitive in two areas of their vagina, their clit or actually inside their vagina. For a girl who is senstive clitorally then you have to find her clit first, it’s near the top of her vagina it’s like a tiny swollen ball. When you find her clit put it into your mouth, if you can stick your tongue under it and your upper lip above it. Gently suck on it in a pulsating manner and if after a few seconds you don’t get a reaciton then try to suck a little harder, do this until you get a reaction. In between sucking you should lick a little too. Make your tongue firm and apply pressure, experiment with less and more pressure. You can lick straight up and down or in circles, whichever she prefers. I find that a mixture works best. Once you get the hang of it you can have a serious combination of licking and sucking that will drive her nuts. If you’re feeling like a champ you can suck on her clit or lick it while fingering her, that also works. IF the girl isn’t as sensative in her clit you may have to actually get your tongue in there. You should lick around where her lips are, and to use a non anatomical term, lick her vagina hole. Mix in firm tongue movements and once again circular motions as well as going in and out.
7. How to tell what she likes and doesn’t like
Focus on her body language. If her back is arched and her hands are going out of control, you’re on the right trail. If she is laying there not reacting too much then you should explore more. When a girl likes something she’s obvious about it, and when she doesn’t like something she fakes it sometimes, which is decieving and sometimes hard to tell especially if it’s your first time with her or any other girl. But once you get to know her it will be easier to tell.
8. How to keep her going
Try not to stop when she starts reacting positively. Also avoid doing things that may turn her off, like biting her clit. Some sex articles and books say to do that but I’ve never met someone who likes an extremely sensative part of their body, with nerve endings in it, to be bitten. Don’t stop if she’s arching her back and grabbing you but saying stop, stop stop… Don’t listen. BUT if she’s saying no really it’s ok you can stop, then you should probably just stop.
9. What to expect
Expect a warm moist place, that is your friend. Expect for your tongue to get tired, and expect your girlfriend to love you forever and beg you to eat her out constantly if you follow these guidlines.